For 9 years Commitment Weekend has strengthened firefighter marriages coast-to-coast. And there's nothing going to stop that. Fire Families adapt right? Right.
If your fire marriage is needing that extra spark. The reminder from people like you who get your life that your marriage should come FIRST..... then this is for you.
All the best of Commitment Weekend. One Low Price. Delivered to Your Door.
1. ORDER + GET YOUR DATE BOX IN THE MAIL!
We send your Date Box package of swag with all the details to plan your own fun 24-48 hours. You also get access to a password protected area full of event material, downloads, bonuses and your Commitment Weekend Video Sessions.
2. PLAN YOUR EXPERIENCE
There are several powerful and fun [re-recorded Video Sessions, Activities and Bonuses to choose from. We have Guest Experts from the Fire Community including topics on: Intimacy, PTSD, Communication and fun couples work-outs, massage and chef-led cooking night in! Follow our suggested timeline below... or create your own! We give you all the details you need. (This is not a live event, it is a replay for you to schedule and use at your own convenience!)
3. MAKE A MARRIAGE MILESTONE
Take your Date Box and Commitment Weekend Access and make a marriage milestone! Do what works for YOU. Video sessions range in fire life topics that most impact our lives. Our list of activities includes the Commitment Weekend Favorite - how to do the "Hands On Training" for fire life with your spouse DIY style!
This Date Box literally an at home Commitment Weekend that you get to experience together as a couple with our programs delivered to your door *and* watched online.
Our goal is for you and your significant other to connect, learn and grow with live online speakers, sessions and meaningful, playful and intimate private activities we designed to do at home (or an Air Bnb/Hotel if you can travel safely) for just the two of you.
Your couple's package includes:
- Online Access to your Commitment Weekend Content with videos, downloads and activity guides in a password protected area just for you!
- Printable downloads to make your event the best experience ever.
- Your "Romantic Adventure" Date Box filled with fun couple's items for your event mailed directly to you that includes
- TWO Amazing books: Travis Howze's newest "Create Your Own Light" and 24-7 Commitment's Best Seller: "Honor and Commitment."
- Firefighter Love Potion Massage Oil. (For your massage session!).
- Do not disturb door hangers *wink*
- The Intimacy Card Deck for Firefighters and their Spouse by FirefighterWife.com
- The Fire Life Decal pack - our 4 most popular decals for him and her!
- Free 7 days of Sex Challenge Book Download from One Extraordinary Marriage.
- CWO Exclusive Recipe cards for your Date Night Dinner Activity
- Bonus decals, inserts, special offers and discounts from 24-7 Commitment, our sponsors and partners.
- Video Sessions from speakers: Frank Viscuso, Reboot Recovery, ONE Extraordinary Marriage and Leslie Vernick.
- Bonuses from our Marriage Partners.
- Bonus Content to tuck away into your Marriage Toolbox for later.
- Activity Video: "How To" Massage your Spouse
- Activity Video: HOT Session Instructions for your own DIY Style
- Activity Video: Re-Commitment Ceremony
- Date Night Plans and Ideas for all of your couple's free time.
Video Sessions Include...
Travis Howze
Sessions hosted U.S. Marine Corps Veteran, former Police Officer and Firefighter, international touring Comedian and Motivational Speaker. Learn more at travishowze.com.
Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo
Tony & Alisa believe that a healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. Learn more at OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com
"THANK YOU for such a wonderful weekend! This experience has truly put my husband and I in a whole new place in our relationship.
We didn’t realize how much writing a simple letter really means. Our date night felt like our first date....butterflies and all! We now have tools to help us along the way.
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!"
Dominic & Angelica - New Mexico
Commitment Weekend Online
Firefighters train hard, and train often. Preparing for any situation, danger or possibility that they may face in the line of duty.
So why not train just as hard for your marriage? Regardless of if you're the firefighter, or the fire spouse, training for your marriage is your duty. Are you being intentional with training with your life partner?
Being committed isn't enough, you have to be ALL IN.
Marriage is a lifelong commitment to learning, growing and nurturing your relationship with your significant other. Great marriages don't just happen, they take two people who are intentional with their time, efforts and words. Consider our Commitment Weekend DIY Date Box a continuing education/training for your marriage.
Firefighters often train for situations that may never happen, but could. Being prepared is a critical part of the fire life. With Commitment Weekend Date Box we not only provide you with great material to improve your relationship NOW, but we also give you tools and resources to stow away in your marriage toolbox... in case you ever need them.
We encourage you to block out your schedule to spend this weekend together as a couple. (No kids either!) There will be activities you can do on your own as well as times to get online and listen to a live speaker or participate in an event.
We do not want you to be in front of a computer all weekend. (Or days of your choice, it does not have to be a weekend... just 48 hours of uninterrupted couples time!)
We DO want you to connect with each other, be inspired by a few live sessions and the interactive exercises we are sending your way.
(And there will be a small list of things we suggest you gather to make your Commitment Weekend Date Box + Access an amazing experience)
Oh..... and if you can do it away somewhere together.... awesome! If not, transform your home into a no-work-zone and romantic gathering place for 48 hours.
Pre-Event "Activities"
You'll have access to your event materials almost immediately. The anticipation is almost as fun as the event itself. (Anyone try the 7 days of sex challenge?? Ok, well there's more too.) While you're waiting to DIY your perfect Commitment Weekend dates you should...
- Print/view your DIY materials online.
- Clear your schedule for the event.
- Secure a sitter if you have children if at all possible.
- Get any chores and errands done before your event to free up time!
- Make any reservations (if you're going away, ordering in or dining out).
- Purchase any special items you may want to enhance your Commitment Weekend experience (We will include a list. We will intentionally try to make you blush a little. All that alone time.....you know!)
Day 1 Suggested Sessions and Videos
- COUPLES WORK OUT - start your day with exercise
- Recorded fun couples workout by a firefighter specific fitness trainer will be released at this time for you to do together at a time that works for you :)
- REBOOT RECOVERY
- Recorded Speaker Session: Hear from Bryan Flannery on topics of PTSD and overcoming trauma.
- Recorded Speaker Session: Hear from Bryan Flannery on topics of PTSD and overcoming trauma.
- FRANK VISCUSO
- Recorded speaking session from the author of "Step Up & Lead"
- Be inspired by Frank's leadership style and relationship advice for fire families
- TONY & ALISA DILORENZO
- Recorded Speaker Session: "MARRIAGE HACKS: 7 WAYS TO MAKE LOVE HOT AND YOUR INTIMACY HOTTER"
- Recorded Speaker Session: "MARRIAGE HACKS: 7 WAYS TO MAKE LOVE HOT AND YOUR INTIMACY HOTTER"
- "How To: H.O.T. for Marriage at Home"
- Recorded "HOW TO" Wrap up your afternoon with a fun instructional Q&A on how you can create your own connecting couples experience doing the fire themed skills together at home.
- Recorded "HOW TO" Wrap up your afternoon with a fun instructional Q&A on how you can create your own connecting couples experience doing the fire themed skills together at home.
- DOWNTIME for you as a couple!
- Rest, recreate, talk, connect and get yourself dressed up for a fun date night at home!
- Chef Led Date Night Dinner at Home Session
- Get those recipe cards we'll give you ready and follow along with the recorded session where you will cook dinner at home. Led by a Firefighter Chief and his wife (also restaurant owners and a hilarious couple who will make laugh!)
- Rest, recreate, talk, connect and get yourself dressed up for a fun date night at home!
Day 2 Suggested Sessions and Videos
- Do your DIY HOT for Marriage Session
- This is your shot to use your "How To" knowledge, or put a little of your own in action. It's your choice which activities you take on together as a couple but we will have challenges for you and encourage you to take pictures and videos and share them with the group!
- This is your shot to use your "How To" knowledge, or put a little of your own in action. It's your choice which activities you take on together as a couple but we will have challenges for you and encourage you to take pictures and videos and share them with the group!
- LESLIE VERNICK
- Recorded Session on "Emotionally Healthy Marriages"
- Don't let the title scare you. This session is amazingly eye opening and comes with a couple's handout worksheet.
- Don't let the title scare you. This session is amazingly eye opening and comes with a couple's handout worksheet.
- Recorded Session on "Emotionally Healthy Marriages"
- "How To: Massage Your Spouse"
- This will be recorded for you to watch alone and enjoy together (who wants to be on camera doing a massage??) We HIGHLY suggest you don't skip this and take this time to reconnect and enjoy each other!
- This will be recorded for you to watch alone and enjoy together (who wants to be on camera doing a massage??) We HIGHLY suggest you don't skip this and take this time to reconnect and enjoy each other!
- MORE FREE TIME - DATE NIGHT!!!
- Get your massage on since you just watched your "How To" session! Or um... if you can't keep your hands off each other at this point... bake cookies! ;)
- Do what you love to do together (Plan a date night, hit the outdoors grab some dinner!)
- Later this evening, we suggest some HOT date night attire.... as fancy as you want! Then be ready to join us for the final session of Recommitment Ceremonies and more great prizes and wise words for Fire Couples. Again - we love photos!
- RECOMMITMENT CEREMONIES
- In your Commitment Weekend Workbook (Digital Download) will be instructions on how to craft your own "Recommitment Ceremony" words. We provide some suggestions but it's ALWAYS best when you write your own (every single person who has done this at our live events has completely made their spouse MELT! Speak from your heart!)
- Use this time to re-commit to your spouse, your marriage and continuing to strengthen and grow, together.
- In your Commitment Weekend Workbook (Digital Download) will be instructions on how to craft your own "Recommitment Ceremony" words. We provide some suggestions but it's ALWAYS best when you write your own (every single person who has done this at our live events has completely made their spouse MELT! Speak from your heart!)
Day 3
"Extra" bonus day if you're able!!! Do what YOU want for fun as a couple.
You can pick and chose and design how you want things to flow.
$64 + $5 Special Shipping!
34 + 35 Thank You Ariana 😉
(includes your Commitment Weekend DIY content and instructions + your date box with over $100 worth of items, gifts and coupons!)
Are all video sessions, sessions and activity instructions pre-recorded?
Yes! This is a reply, NOT a live event. You get immediate access to the entire event content. We do give you a suggested timeline to help you flow into the event together, just as you would in person. This helps you watch all the right things at the right time, getting you ready for the next sessions in your event. But really, any time focused on your marriage is good, so if you can't follow our suggested timeline... create your own!
Speakers, sessions and activity instructions are all pre-recorded and viewable at your leisure.
What comes in the DIY Commitment Weekend Date Box?
- Everything listed above HERE.
Do we have to be available for an entire weekend?
Nope (but we do recommend blocking 24- 48 hours if at all possible!). If you need to work around a shift day, stretch it out over a week, it’s still possible. Do what you have to do to make it work for you, it's YOUR Commitment Weekend!
As you need it to. We give you a suggested order of events, but this is DIY... make it work the best way you can but we do ask that you both give it your all!
All video sessions are pre-recorded. We'll give you an outline of our suggested Agenda Timeline, but you may have obstacles to work around. Do it how you can, but we highly suggest that you take an intentional 48 hours to spend together.
Yes. If at all possible, taking time for just the two of you is highly recommended. Uninterrupted, non-parenting, distraction free couples time is the goal here! And…. we will talk about s-e-x which will not be appropriate for little ears.
If you cannot get childcare, you can still make this event work to the best of your ability.
How does this really work? Are we just watching zoom meetings the whole time?
HECK NO! Even at our in person Commitment Weekends we schedule no more than 4 - 6 hours of speaker time over a 3 day period. This is about connecting together as a couple and meeting other fire couples you can relate to. All of this happens by doing various fun date / fire themed activities together. Commitment Weekend Online is similar.
You receive a date box package of swag and activities. We will share with you all of our Video sessions with speakers, guiding you through fun activities like couples workouts, couple's massage, date night, recommitment ceremonies and cooking lessons, oh, and our infamous H.O.T. for Marriage drills. There will also be free space for you to do what you like. Pick an activity from our box or choose your own.
How do these “interactive activities” like date night cooking, couples workout, massage actually work?
You will receive more detailed prep instructions for your entire "weekend" beforehand in a printable checklist! You'll also have password access to your DIY Commitment Weekend Home Page where you can find out all the details for each part of your weekend!
Prep for your activity and follow along with your video session - DIY!
H.O.T. for Marriage is perhaps the most fun activity of all of Commitment Weekend when each firefighter helps his spouse get into fire gear and run a fire themed obstacle / skills course designed by our team. Clearly you all won’t have drywall breaching or forcible entry simulators at home (bonus points if you make this happen, we saw this in our LIVE event July 24-26th!).
However, even just trying on some gear and trying a couple tools is going to be impactful as a couple.
Creativity is not limited here. We will have a session to coach you through ideas for making your own at home H.O.T. (and yes if you want to build a drywall breach simulator, or forcible entry your own back door….. go for it!) Just be thinking what kinds of things you could (legally) borrow from your department for the weekend. Air Pack, hose pack, halligan tool, etc. And be thinking what’s around.
And be prepared to photo and video this session - we love seeing fire wives in action!
A bigger device is better than a phone. A laptop, iPad or even connect to your TV and get comfy on the couch watching. Oh…. and Facebook if you're on social. We know not everyone is on it but it is a great way to interact in a group and connect with other people who have experienced, or are experiencing their own Commitment Weekend Online!
You will also have a login for your Commitment Weekend content! Those details will be sent to you at registration, via the email address you use at checkout. You can share a login to access if needed.
What is 24/7 Commitment and why is there a fee to attend any format of Commitment Weekend?
24-7 Commitment is a 501 (c)(3) non-profit with the mission to honor, support and encourage fire service marriages and families. You can learn more at 247Commitment.org. The majority of our funding comes from individual donors. Sigh... We wish we had a big helpful generous sponsor to let us provide this all to you for free but alas.... not yet - if you know one, send them our way!).
So we try to keep costs as low as possible without sacrificing quality for our attendees. And..... this is the LOWEST PRICED CW EVER since we don't have crazy expensive venue fees. We are hoping this really entices a lot of couples to jump in and try it.
We are unable to offer refunds. You'll have immediate access to all event materials, pre-recorded sessions and downloads. You can create your "weekend" at any time. You can use this content to create multiple couple's "weekends" if you choose to replay your content multiple times.
If you have any issues after purchase, please email us for help at Contact@FirefighterWife.com and we'll be glad to help you get sorted out.
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